Forget Mr. Married, Move On!

Discovering that the man you love or having a relationship with is married can really be rollercoaster emotions and definitely frustrating for any woman. The only resolve we can do is to exit in his life and move on. That is the right thing to do; however, this can be tough since you had an attachment with this person. You probably felt mad, abandonment, and all the rest of negative emotions. Here's better help for you to move on, girl!

You know you deserve more than being wheeled into this affair and you do not want to sell yourself short for any man who doesn’t deserve your time and affection. Breaking the old routine could incredibly difficult, as this married man would try his half-heart cry act to get you back. However, this could not influence your decision so any attempt of such a game should not get a positive response from you, am I right?

Since you agreed with me, let has had a strong will to break and make an exit of his life. These self-care reminders below shall help you do it! 

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1. Having a strong and immovable decision

No one can do anything against your will, you yourself know that if you stand firm with your decision to get out of his life for good, he could not hinder such. When you are done telling him that he must no longer wheel you in any of his affairs, he will not bother you on that!

2. Think that this is not about him, but more about you

If you keep finding yourself getting back to him and believing his excuses remember that he once lied to you. Are you still going to be a fool and believe whatever promises and excuses he tells? This things were just good to calm you down but deeper on that it just a word.

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3. Remember he had wasted your time and messed up with your emotion

You had made him part of your life and spend times with him but in reality, he should not because he knows himself is committed to someone else. This flimsy affair is not the type you want from anyone and is unworthy of your time. You need to get out soon no matter how much you love this guy. You can put yourself in a shoe of the woman he married to, looking at how degrading it is and you do not want to be part of such a relationship.

4. You can't live in lies

Could you just imagine how he chooses dishonesty? Whether you are ready or not to let him go, you need to do that since you do not want to be a side chick. Imagine yourself 2 or 10 years from now if you let that relationship continue. Imagine how it will tangle all your plans and goals that you had keep him within. This isn't what you expect from any relationship!

5. Think about the seatbacks. 

Any man would agree that no woman deserves to be in an illegitimate relationship but they can also agree that they find it difficult to let go of you but remember, in future you be dealing with seatbacks. Occasions or holidays is very important and he might be absent because he needs to be with his family.

6. You need to break old habits

You need to burn all possible means for him to connect back with you. This includes your old habit of checking his message on the phone. You should realize that by this time, you must stop expecting him. Instead, get back to your mission or other activity that is productive and have might be neglected during your grieving time.

7. Confide to someone you trust

Healing is never an easy process. You can be passing stages before you be finally alright again. To avoid being isolated on your thoughts, you can confide to someone whom you trusted. If you could not find any or do not want to bother your family and friends, God is there and waiting for you to talk to Him. Reconnecting back to the Creator is the best way to heal your broken soul.

8. Date when you are ready

Getting into a new relationship after break up is a big NO. You should not get protection or distraction from a new relationship because at this stage you are emotionally unready for that. It would be unfair for the other person to with you after you ditch your married man, you could just be craving for closeness and it is pointless to date someone just for the intention or hopes to fill the emptiness you may be feeling. You need to heal first and be ready.

9. Seek for uplifting programs and support

There are so many programs you can enroll that would be excellent support for this stage. If you wish to have a fresh perspective and move on with life or even address the angry, enroll in training or guide so you won't be stuck unhealed. It would be a good time to mingle with this group supports so you know that you are not alone who is passing such battle.

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