Internet had become our easiest means to communicate with
other people where ever they may be. Thus, it also becomes a way for others to
get to know their love interest but as much as they wanted to make it real,
most often this type of relationship fails. There are many reasons attributed
to these and we will check out these reasons on the following list below.
Long distance relationships, why mostly fail
Distance, age, or time does not matter when it comes to
true love. This according to idealist or hopeless romantic people so when it
fails, it’s not true love. You must keep in mind that any relationship there is
obstacles and it is on us how we deal it. The following reasons could be the
reasons why long distance relationships didn’t work though both parties are in
love.
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1. The Trust
Issue
Without trust, there is no relationship. If you do not
see your partner as much as you wanted to, you are dealing with negative
scenarios in your mind that maybe they are spending their time with other
people. Your lack of trust kills your budding relationship instead of making it
stronger each day.
2. Doubt and
Insecurity
If you are having insecurity and your partner do not know
about it, it will be bottled up in time leaving you feeling lost even though
you are in a relationship. The doubt itself, if things will work out at the
end, will eventually sabotage your relationship. If you find yourself in a long
distance relationship and you have many insecurities you can open it up to your
partner so she/he can ease you.
3. Them Meeting
New People
One of the most common reasons why long distance
relationship did not work is their lack of time to invest in the relationship.
As time goes by, the other partner meets another company that they might like
or interest into, thus, leaving the other in the hanging situation. In most
cases, the other partner will just leave the other in the dark while they spend
time on the company of others. It could be the cowardice that hinders to tell
the other that they are seeing someone new or they simply do not want you to
bother about their new friend. Which is which, is still not right.
4. No time
Sometimes, the other partner is busy with other things in
life, say meeting ends meet and this tends to disregard the time they should be
spending together. Even though you got an excuse that they are still on your
mind every day despite being busy but this may not what the other partner had
thought of.
5. Aren’t
Priority
Often times, when one is left waiting online while the
other partner is busy on something, the one who is waiting, will be eaten up
with the bad feeling that he/she is not the priority of his/her partner. If you
do not know how to deal with such, the relationship is doom to fail.
6. Intimacy and
Support Felt Less
Since you are physically apart, the intimacy and support
of your partner would likely be less felt unless you make an extra effort on
that. Sometimes, your partner needs you beside them like when they are sick or
need emotional support on tough time. Absence makes love to grow fonder,
however, not in all cases.
7. Arguments
Surely, in any relationship this is present. You just
need to talk about everything for you to know each other well, but there are
issues that you are not both in agreement with your partner. Such friction can
intensify hurt or negative feeling especially if the other partner will just
shut you up or leave in silence.
You just got some preview causes why long distance
relationship fails. Had you in this type of relationship then you need to love
harder and trust more your partner. Otherwise, things will go miserable.
I love her and I will constantly think how is she now, I do not have courage to ask her or tell her how I really feel. I doubted this type of relationship really works but it is too difficult as well to divert my attention to other girl when shes constantly in my mind even though I am busy.
ReplyDeletesame as mine. im into long distance relationship. I meet him online and i pray that we can make it. I need this type of tips
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