Top 7 Reasons Long Distance Relationship Fails - It's Complicated

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Saturday, February 23, 2019

Top 7 Reasons Long Distance Relationship Fails


Internet had become our easiest means to communicate with other people where ever they may be. Thus, it also becomes a way for others to get to know their love interest but as much as they wanted to make it real, most often this type of relationship fails. There are many reasons attributed to these and we will check out these reasons on the following list below.

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Long distance relationships, why mostly fail
Distance, age, or time does not matter when it comes to true love. This according to idealist or hopeless romantic people so when it fails, it’s not true love. You must keep in mind that any relationship there is obstacles and it is on us how we deal it. The following reasons could be the reasons why long distance relationships didn’t work though both parties are in love.
1.    The Trust Issue

Without trust, there is no relationship. If you do not see your partner as much as you wanted to, you are dealing with negative scenarios in your mind that maybe they are spending their time with other people. Your lack of trust kills your budding relationship instead of making it stronger each day.

2.    Doubt and Insecurity

If you are having insecurity and your partner do not know about it, it will be bottled up in time leaving you feeling lost even though you are in a relationship. The doubt itself, if things will work out at the end, will eventually sabotage your relationship. If you find yourself in a long distance relationship and you have many insecurities you can open it up to your partner so she/he can ease you.

3.    Them Meeting New People

One of the most common reasons why long distance relationship did not work is their lack of time to invest in the relationship. As time goes by, the other partner meets another company that they might like or interest into, thus, leaving the other in the hanging situation. In most cases, the other partner will just leave the other in the dark while they spend time on the company of others. It could be the cowardice that hinders to tell the other that they are seeing someone new or they simply do not want you to bother about their new friend. Which is which, is still not right.

4.    No time

Sometimes, the other partner is busy with other things in life, say meeting ends meet and this tends to disregard the time they should be spending together. Even though you got an excuse that they are still on your mind every day despite being busy but this may not what the other partner had thought of.

5.    Aren’t Priority

Often times, when one is left waiting online while the other partner is busy on something, the one who is waiting, will be eaten up with the bad feeling that he/she is not the priority of his/her partner. If you do not know how to deal with such, the relationship is doom to fail.

6.    Intimacy and Support Felt Less

Since you are physically apart, the intimacy and support of your partner would likely be less felt unless you make an extra effort on that. Sometimes, your partner needs you beside them like when they are sick or need emotional support on tough time. Absence makes love to grow fonder, however, not in all cases.

7.    Arguments

Surely, in any relationship this is present. You just need to talk about everything for you to know each other well, but there are issues that you are not both in agreement with your partner. Such friction can intensify hurt or negative feeling especially if the other partner will just shut you up or leave in silence.

You just got some preview causes why long distance relationship fails. Had you in this type of relationship then you need to love harder and trust more your partner. Otherwise, things will go miserable.



2 comments:

  1. I love her and I will constantly think how is she now, I do not have courage to ask her or tell her how I really feel. I doubted this type of relationship really works but it is too difficult as well to divert my attention to other girl when shes constantly in my mind even though I am busy.

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  2. same as mine. im into long distance relationship. I meet him online and i pray that we can make it. I need this type of tips

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