9 Leading Reasons You Married A Wrong Person

Many of us dream to have a love of our life is with us for the rest of our life. Sometimes, those ideal things of happy ever after made us jump into a decision to marry them. Sure, but you know a blind love can make your life a living hell? Marrying the wrong person absolutely cost you everything!

For many years of legal counseling, I heard so much about woman or wife complaining that her husband is a jerk or some other bad descriptions that probably she would not say had this be earlier on their marriage or dating period. The thing why this happens is because the woman failed to see the hidden character of the man, or the man is a great pretender. Whatever the case, this is so frustrating case and needless to say regretfully especially on the side of a woman. However, had you thought that in a way it is also burdensome to a man being in this situation or marriage? Now, let’s take a look at what possible reasons that could lead such.

1.    Expecting them to change

No, that is the very ancient mistake I had already heard too many times in the past when talking to couples who are not happy in their marriage. If you are expecting that the other person or your spouse would change for the better just because they are married to you, then think again. Did he/she see you so precious enough that he/she be willing to sacrifice and change for better? If not, I think you should expect that your spouse would change …but for the worse.

2.    Attraction or chemistry

Feelings can be fleeting and intimate moments can get as cold as ice the moment your eyes would see how he/she can treat you bad. If you are with your partner because he/she could give butterfly in your stomach, what happens if you no longer find him beautiful or she/he don’t know longer see you beautiful? Attraction or chemistry would lead to beautiful sex but surely, it is not alone that could make a harmonious company or make a love to survive.

3.    Too young for a relationship

Maybe you are in a relationship when you are still young and naïve. This could be the reason why you do not see the difference between how a man can possibly first do things that could make her woman happy instead of getting what makes him happy first. Being in an incredibly amazing romantic relationship is when you get a partner that would take an extra mile to make you feel important and valued in any way possible. That is, they will look after and find ways to make you happy being with them.

4.    Clashes of goals and priorities

There a clique saying “Love does not consist of gazing each other but looking in the same direction.” This is so true. If the other person has different goal, priorities, or ambition in life you are frustrated that at time of being together you will find out that he or she is working towards it, which may be conflicting to your interest.

5.    Easily attached

There is nothing wrong to be attached to the person we love, however, if you are the type of person that could easily get attached on a small caring gesture from the other person, you are putting yourself an easy prey to those love deceit. You are not going to dive on the instant flash of affection towards you, rather test the water if it can survive storms.

6.    Making you emotionally unstable

Sure, we want someone that can shiver our bones to hell with excitement and pleasure, but on the other hand, if the other person makes you feel like you could not trust them, then you are on your way to hurting yourself. Good love is something that can heal you, inside and out. It takes true love for one person to be comfortable and safe, not restless. A beautiful love can actually make you a better person, inspires and motivate you and not taking out all the negative feeling from your inner self that you are trying to kill.

7.    Not transparent

You probably married to the wrong person because you do not know or your partner does not know what you expect from him. He/she don’t know what you’ve been through or what are those valuable things or principles you could defend your life with. Setting this thing clear on the table would definitely make you both come to a good compromise.

8.    Unhappy

Being lonely does not entirely mean that you are unhappy. Being in unhappy states happens even if you are in the company of another person. Sometimes a person who is so accustomed to being alone loves the peace of it, and this could make them more secluded on their private spaces, however, some people when lonely and unhappy tend to be in the company of more people, longing for some connections. Sometimes this could mistakenly pursue them someone who is always there for them. They may or may not intentionally use the person but it may look like such when things could go wrong so do not take any commitment or say ‘I do’ if you are having doubt that she/he is the person you really need in your life.

9.    Love triangle

As much as possible ask him/her about their past relationship. They may not openly say to you that they are still attached to them, but you can see signs that a person is not really over with their past. There may be some unresolved issues that they haven’t face or scared to confront and at the back of their mind, they could be constantly wondering what could happen if they did think otherwise. This could sabotage the relationship they are about to have with you.

Marriage is a good thing. Having a good partner is what makes it so amazing however we also need to be careful in marrying another person. There is evidently too high percentage rates of marriage that just go down to divorce. Some are just about a week old when they decided that they are not for each other and believe me when you married the nine reasons above no matter how you work to make the relationship right for you, it will cost you a lot. Emotionally or psychologically it isn’t worth the suffering. You are worthy and absolutely you deserve someone who gives you happiness and not someone who could be adding stress to your life.

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