Expect These Things If You Are With Mr/Ms. WRONG!

Jennifer Samson, a relationship coach doesn't get around the bush when she told me there are things that won't really work out. I guess this is true. I have seen a lot of people working on with the relationship hoping one day their effort will pay off. They try harder and harder, but it still beyond their grasp.

She further cites 'chemistry' as an example of those. While it is possible that you can like just any person, becoming in love with them is another thing. But what I'm in love with the person I am with right now. I like and love her, how will I know that this relationship will work?

Yes, there isn't wrong with working to make a relationship work to make it healthy and lasting. However, it is also important that you distinguish within yourself that you are with someone who isn't wrong for you so you won't be feeling like missing out something all the time.

According to Jennifer Samson, there are a few things you can expect to happen when you are with Mr./Ms. WRONG. Let us check it out below!

1. You Constantly Guessing What S/He's Really Thinking

A right one will always open up with you on how they actually feel. They will not conceal things even if telling you makes them uncomfortable. The right partner for you will not make you guess too much of what they really think because they know the importance of having a good flow of communication in a relationship.

2. You Will Start To Doubt Your Importance

A wrong partner won't make you feel any worth. In fact, the wrong one is a constant threat to your own sanity and self-esteem. The right one won't magnify your weakness and won't make you feel you are less. They are the one that can really be your support system because they see the greatness in you despite all your inadequacies.

3. You Truly Have The Time To Enjoy Your Relationship With Your Partner

The wrong one will rain you with excuses and makes you more anxious if they are still into you or they had already left. You must not suffer these consequences that make you feel like anytime they can drop you like nothing and you feel so unsafe every day waiting when it will be coming today or not.

4. Your Partner Won't Keep Learning More About You

Even if you are already with someone as your partner, it will never happen that you will know all about him/her. Thoughts, ways, likes, and needs are constantly changing in every person, though it is nice to have someone that could tell what you much prefer it would make a lot if they will give an extra little attention to know your hidden self and to make you feel more fulfilled.

5. You Seem Not Part Of Their Life

Things aren't in cooperation with you. They make things you are unaware of. A right person in the start is not a guarantee that they will always be the right one until the end because the heart of a person is so scary thing to deal with. It could change without you knowing it and before you get your chance you will only discover that they decide something or do an activity without your knowledge.

6. Silence With Them Is Becoming Awkwardly Dangerous

If before you can stay silent sitting beside them and you find solace with it, now being silence with them might mean they are at war of holding on or dropping you a bomb. It makes you so watchful of their slight move in order to give you some clue of what they really up to. The awkwardness is at a hazardous level.

Time, hard work, and faith can change everything in a relationship but not all are guaranteed. And when it makes you too weary to fight, you will it is not really working and aren't really worth sacrificing your chance to be happy with someone else. When this happens, never hesitate to reach out for help.